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A Herd of Horses

  • January 21, 2016/
  • Posted By : Marsha Ferrick/
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  • Under : Leadership, Life Coaching, Relationships, Team Building

Once upon a time in a small village a man owned some land. One day a herd of wild horses came to reside on this man’s property. His neighbors were so excited! They told him this is great. You are a very wealthy man now. The man only replied, “maybe it’s good, maybe it’s bad”. Then the man’s son decided he would train the stallion of this wild herd, and in the process the stallion dumped the son and the son’s leg was broken. The neighbors were so upset! This is awful they replied, “what will you do now that your son has a broken leg?” Again, the man only replied, “maybe it’s good, maybe it’s bad”. At this same time the King of this man’s country declared war on another country, and began conscripting young men into the army. Needless to say this man’s son could not go because he had a broken leg.

Original Source Unknown

This story is one of my favorites. It reminds me that in any given moment my judgment of an event is wrong. The story suggests that I might want to suspend titles such as “good” or “bad” because I simply do not have the power to know how that event will play out in the future. “Good” and “bad” are labels I give an event depending on the story I have created about how that event will impact myself or others. The story I create is no more accurate then the story that someone else might create about the same event.

So has a herd of wild horses appeared in your world today? If so remember, “maybe it’s good, maybe it’s bad”, or maybe it is just another part of your life’s journey. What story will you create today? Make it fun!

Byron Katie on Judging


FUSTER CLUCK MEDIATION

  • January 10, 2016/
  • Posted By : Marsha Ferrick/
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  • Under : Life Coaching

What is a Fuster Cluck?

A fuster cluck occurs when someone lets the fox into the hen house!

Ever have one of those days when you feel like you have been hit by a tornado before you get that first cup of caffeine? I have days like that when at 4:30 AM the dogs want out, I cannot find my socks, and have misplaced my glasses. The horses cannot find their own stalls (even though they go in them every other day perfectly fine), the light bulb is out in the tack room, and I cannot find the feed supplements anywhere! Never mind the frozen buckets of ice in the horse stalls and footing so slick I think I need ski poles to keep me upright! Yikes! What a way to start the day.

When things go awry I get to make a choice, I can jump in and join the insanity going on around me like a crazy hyena, or I can stand back, and observe the entertainment going on before me. Now mind you this is my circus, and these are my monkeys (or should I say horses, and dogs) but it doesn’t mean I need to join them at center stage. In fact, when I stop, breathe, shake my head, and smile at the insanity going on about me the monkeys start to calm down, the horses find their stalls, I locate my glasses, and life starts to fall into place, and well I am just a bit more grateful for that cup of caffeine when I actually do get it.

Remember the next time your in a fuster cluck, just smile, and enjoy the show. Life really is here for our amusement. Don’t take it too seriously even if it is your circus and your monkeys!


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