Intrapersonal Conflict Vs Interpersonal Conflict
Very few people enjoy conflict, but we can better understand how to approach and improve moments in which we experience conflict by understanding if it is an intrapersonal conflict or […]
Conversations: Dancing with Words
The dance is a poem of which each movement is a word. Mata Hari I guess I could say I’m a conversationologist. Yes, I made that word up. I find […]
Love like a Stallion
Horses can teach us about life, if we take the time to observe, and understand their behavior. Fin, my Andalusian stallion reminds me of the importance of letting those we […]
Your Posture, Impacts You
Be fully in the moment, open yourself to the powerful energies dancing around you. Ernest Hemingway We know that our posture impacts how others see us, but did you know […]
The Value of Knowing Nothing
Communication solves all problems. Steve Chandler What is the value of knowing nothing about another? This might be the one truth that is truly useful in forming and maintaining relationships, […]
Horses & Lunch
The feminine energy of the mare pulls the herd. The masculine energy of the stallion pushes the herd. In concert, they keep the herd fed, watered and safe. They interact […]
Are You Having Fun?
“You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation. ” Plato Several years ago I was working with a couple. The […]
Are you Listening or Anticipating?
I own a beautiful bay Andalusian stallion who’s nicknamed Fin. Riding him today I was acutely aware of when he was listening to me, and we were communicating clearly versus […]
Are You a Boredom Pecker?
As I talked to Debby Kinsella at Full Circle Ranch B & B, Cave Creek, AZ about her hens that supplied the eggs for morning breakfast, a friend of hers […]
What’s in a Whisper?
What is in a whisper? I watch my mares in the pasture, and they whisper. They whisper to their colts, to each other, to the stallion, and to me. They […]